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Gender: F
Age: 26
Married: N
State: nj
Experience...
This is for all the young girls an woman who have just found out they have herpes. I am a 26 year old beautiful woman an have been told it often. When I had my first out break it was the worst thing that ever happen to me in my life an I have been through alot. I am still with the same man from when I found out about it and to this day dont no if he gave it to me or not but I have let that go. After my first outbreak that was horrible I began to get them every month. I want to die. So i went to the doc finally and they gave me meds to take next time. I took that an start to change my life for positive I go to the gym every other day take a multi vitmin and 1000mg of L Lysine. I didnt get an out break for about a year when I did I took meds right away and its gone with in two days an never gets bad! I just want to let you no it is a heard thing to deal with but dont ever give up!! I am the happiest ive ever bin in my life right now an now know nothing will ever bring me down!!!! [47084]

Gender: M
Age: 34
Married: N
Experience...
I was led to this site by Google while searching for food sources of arginine and lysine for nutritional purposes. I have never had herpes. I was struck by the tag "you are not alone". Actually, I live alone. I don`t have herpes because I don`t have loose morals. If ya know what I mean. [47080]

Gender: F
Age: 63
Married: Y
State: GA
Country: USA
Experience...
DID NOT KNOW I HAD, LEARN FOR TEST DONE IN 2007 [47069]
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Gender: M
Age: 28
Married: Y
State: new zealand
Country: momy land
Experience...
diahrea constipation chody [47067]

Gender: F
Age: 22
Married: N
Experience...
Im never thought this would happen ive known this man for 5yrs im scared [47064]

Gender: F
Age: 25
Married: Y
State: ks
Country: us
Experience...
DON`T GET DOWN ON YOURSELF. LIFE GOES ON, I FELT LIKE DYING WHEN I FOUND OUT. I REALIZED IT COULD BE ALOT WOSRE!! I`VE BEEN IN SEVERAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH NON/CARRIERS WHO KNEW I WAS A CARRIER. SO DON`T BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. LIFE IS A BLESSING, SO ENJOY WHILE YOU CAN!!! [47063]

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Gender: F
Age: 16
Married: N
State: Ga
Country: United States
Experience...
I woke up this morning to my mom on the phone with my doctor. The call was about results from my blood test; I have herpes. They don`t know what type and I`m going back for more blood work in 6 to 8 weeks. I`m scared and feel lonely. I have yet to accept it. It`s hard to look in the mirror knowing this about myself. All I can think about is how people would react to me if they knew this. I`ve had intercourse with two people. I had blood work done after me and the first one broke up. Inbetween the time of my test and my results I, being dumb and trustworthy, had sex with a guy that I really liked. Well he decided to go back to his ex. Now I have these results and I`m scared that I could have spread it to him. I don`t know how I will ever be in a relationship. I`m too ashamed to tell anyone and it wouldn`t be right to not tell. [47054]

Gender: F
Age: 29
Married: N
State: ca
Country: us
Experience...
The first time that I found out that I had herpes I started to cry. I`ve been with my boyfriend for 2yrs. And I haven`t told him him that I just found out what I have. He dosenKt have it he had just gotten his physical and got tested. I believe I got it from my last relationship. I don`t know if I should tell him and my family or just keep it to myself. I`m so embarrased and scared I havenKt had any out breaks just alittle burning But I started to take my medication the same day the doctor told me. I hope I never get an outbreak it sucks that I have to live with this for the rest of my life. I don`t wish this for anyone why did this had to happen to me? [47046]

Gender: F
Age: 21
Married: N
State: West Virginia
Country: USA
Experience...
If you have herpes, don`t feel embarrassed or ashamed, all herpes are is just a cold sore on your genitals. You may feel like you could never possibly be in a relationship or have children, but if you`ve found the right person they`ll accept it and if not they aren`t right for you and not worth being with, and having children it is very unlikely to pass herpes on to your unborn child because if you have an out break when you go to deliver, the doctors will preform a cesarean (c-section); you can only pass herpes through direct skin to skin contact. People may discriminate you for having herpes, but remember, it`s easy for someone to judge a person with herpes or any std, when they don`t understand. You may have been a victim of cheating,rape,or it could be that you got back with your ex and your ex had intercourse with someone while you were split up and that person not knowing it then giving it to you. What ever the reason is, it`s not your fault. But remember if you have herpes tell the person before you have sex with them. You can decrease the risk of infecting another person by using condoms or if you`re in a long term relationship stay faithful. And always remember you`re not alone. [47038]

Gender: F
Age: 29
Married: N
State: NV
Country: USA
Experience...
Well I have had this for almost eleven years. I went into denial about it and still dated people that I met normaly and waited to tell them later when we were going to have sex. To my surprise they accepted it. But then when I count the actual number of relatonships I have been in, it`s not many. Then I tried the dating sites and I was disappointed to find such a low level of people that are actually on them. You can`t get a good feeling from just a picture. I became very depressed with the small limited pool of people that I had to choose from. I tried moving to a bigger city to have more of a selection but I was rather disapointed with the few guys that I chose. Then I felt guilty because I was not giving them a chance, but then I realize that everyone has their preference and you shouldn`t settle because that hurts the person you`re settling for. Then I started doing some really nasty things. I dated a man that took me out and treated me like gold and in the heat of the moment I didn`t say anything about it. I just waited till we were done and told him to shower. I did this with a few people. They never got it I had believed because of the showering, but then I realized that they may just not be having any symptoms. I was lying to myself and putting their well being in jepardy. Besides, how long could I keep up the lie anyway. They would find it strange after a while that they always had to shower and they would figure it out eventually. So now I ended it with a man that I like very much and he doesn`t know why. He`s hurt but I don`t want him to live like I have. I went back to the dating sites to disapoint my self even further. I am attractive and smart but I have baggage, and now criminal baggage too. I feel that I am a pathological liar, deciever, and I know that I would never had been this way if it was not for catching this. This situation is terrible and I don`t know what to do. There is little funding for a cure and I feel that if the scientists don`t help us, more people are going to resort to the things that I have done. I believe many people do this and don`t talk about it. That`s how I contracted it anyway, from someone that couldn`t tell me. Not everyone is that strong and when you have a man that really wants sex bad, and so do you, you might just give it to him to escape the situation all together. We are only human with the same needs as everyone else. [47030]

Gender: F
Age: 43
Married: N
State: NY
Country: US
Experience...
messed around when I was young, but never thought I would get this. Was married for almost two years and wanted OUT of the marriage. Decided to give it a nother shot. Notices something on his penis, but let it go. Went to have intercoure and it was soooo painful, I just could not do it. Few days later, felt cuts around my vaginal area. The doctor checked me out and came back. TOld me that I was "not a bad person" I was devastated. Husband told me that it did not matter because he would never leave me. Of course not, he was the MoFo that gave me this crap. I was in so much pain, could barely walk, cried non-stop. My sexual life was over. I absolutely hated my husbad after that. How could I ever have a good sexual relationship with somone again? I eventually had a baby via c-section and divorced this jerk. The two men that I have been with since seemed to be ok with the fact that I have hthis horrible disease. But i can tell that the intimatcy is not as intimate because it is lacking oral sex. The last guy I was with, is in his 20's and I know that even though he accepts me, he is afraid of getting it. We always use protcetion, but one time while having sex he said: make sure the condom doesn`t come off! That was so painful when he said it, but I understand. I do not think that i would have accepted somone with Herpes. I have never told any of my friends. I am so ashamed., I still feel dirty and undesirable. I have gained weight and even when I tell myself that I am beautiful, I still feel dirty and undesirable. God how I hope they find a cure! Even though it does make me feel better that they guys I have been with since want me for me, I still feel that I am now "less than" and that they are settling.... [47028]

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