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Gender: F
Age: 30
Married: Y
Experience...
I would like to share my story with those whom may be interested to know i have reciently contracted herpies type 2 well, tested positiv for the condition. I moved to sweden from France for the love of my life and before we met had all the correct tests for sexual health and i tessed negative as did my fiancee. We have been together for 5 yrs now i only had one partner previously whom i lost my virginity to he tested before we got together sexually for the first time and tested negative. I was only after moving to sweden and studying the language with a mass of other immigrants studying i contracted this virus i believe off a dirty coffee cup from a good friend of mine from somalia to the mouth as i started to get attacks in my throat and tonsils a week after and the doctor said i had herpies in my throat. I am guessing how i got the virus below is due to aural sex with my fiancee unknowingly. So for any suffering out there it happens to us all and it shouldnt be looked upon as a person being discusting there are many virus out there and its hard to know whats lurking on your next coffee cup or pint glass. [47645]

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Gender: F
Age: 28
Married: N
State: Ill
Country: United States of America
Experience...
I just found out and I am gong through things. I should have done something better to protect myself. Except, I was in love at the time or at least I thought that he was I love with me. [47644]

Gender: F
Age: 50
Married: Y
State: Michigan
Country: USA
Experience...
I married my second husband in December 2008. In November 2010 I found out he was cheating on me. After the holidays I decided to get checked. Well I absolutely lost it. Cryed and cryed. All I could think of who wants a 50 year old with herpes and now I am alone the rest of my life. I decided I would not date ever again. Today I was trying for the first time to study up on it. I can`t believe there is a dating sight. I now feel like there is hope. Although at this point I am very scared about it. I`ll keep reading and getting more positive about this and then look out here she comes. [47640]

Gender: F
Age:39
Married: N
State: Nebraska
Experience...
I just contracted herpes this year. I have never felt so dirty in my life. Even the doctors and nurses treated me like I was dirty. Living a normal life with this just doesn`t seem to be in cards for me. I was crying everyday when I first found out.The person that I thought I was gonna be able to date is no longer in my life. Being depressed is a everyday thing for me now. Just pray for me as I pray for you guys. I don`t know how to live with this I feel so alone. [47639]

Gender: F
Age: 24
Married: N
State: ny
Country: usa
Experience...
Well I`m no angel, but I was faithful to my boyfriend of six months. We used no condoms and I ended up getting herpes. The doc says we can`t tell if he gave it to me because herpes can lay dormant. I told him about it and he loved me anyway- wiped the tears from my eyes and told me he still wanted to be with me. I didn`t want to eat. He fed me. He held me. Fast Forward.... Things are not the greatest between us. He`s a cheat, he thinks that life is supposed to be shared with more than one woman. He`s blatent and unapologetic about his desire to have sex with other people and maintain and ex-girlfriend who lives in england! Somewhere in between all of that I got pregnant and lost the baby. He still wants to be with me he says. He wants us to try to have a baby. From the outside there looks as if something is wrong with me. Why on earth would I stay? But if I leave him,will I ever have a chance to have kids? Will anybody ever want to touch me again? I feel like damaged goods. I want a family too, and though this is not what I wanted out of life. I feel like I should have my children now while I still can. I think he`ll be a good and loving dad, but I know that most of the burden will be on me. [47629]

Gender: M
Age: 31
Married: N
State: ny
Country: unitedstates
Experience...
dnt know if is true or not but did have out breaks [47613]

Gender: F
Age: 36
Married: Y
State: Ca
Country: Us
Experience...
I know 1-2 weeks before I develop an outbreak. I get extremely fatigued bidy hurts and I get severe pain in my leg and groin before the blister comes also I only get one blister no matter how bad the prodrome period is. I get outbreak after outbrak wish I had something to prevent this [46437]

Gender: F
Age: 20
Married: N
State: TX
Experience...
People think that having herpes makes you a slut... I have only had sex with 2 people, and I have it. Does that make me a slut? [46435]

Gender: F
Age: 21
Married: N
State: Minnesota
Country: USA
Experience...
When I was first diagnosed I thought it was the end of the world. It is not, other than the occasional outbreak which is more of a pain and annoyance than anything I live a perfectly normal life. I consider it more of a gift than anything, it was the motivation I needed to finally get healthy. [46434]

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Gender: F
Age: 49
Married: Y
State: GA
Country: USA
Experience...
Want to know when it happened. I`ve been with my husband for 25 yrs. This is my 1st outbreak. Wondering if he stepped out on our marriage? [46433]

Gender: F
Age: 61
Married: N
State: VA
Experience...
dr. just diagnosed from blood test. however, did not tell me which herpes it is. She said main sympton for the specific type i HAVE is extreme, bedriden exhaustion/fatigue I am trying to find out which one it is. I asked if it was zoster or genital (the only types I have read about) and she said no. [46432]

Gender: F
Age: 29
Married: Y
State: ma
Country: usa
Experience...
I was told i had herpes once in college, then when i went to my PCP she keeps checking. doing biopsies, blood test, she checked with my pap smears for a couple of years now and it`s always been negative. WEIRD! [46429]

Gender: F
Age: 25
Married: N
State: London
Country: England
Experience...
I contracted genital herpes from a boyfriend who had coldsores on his mouth when I was 16. He was only my second partner and I was devastated at the time because I had been so careful. Both of us had been tested but I had no idea that you could catch an std from a facial cold sore. I really believe more should be done to educate people about sexually transmitted infections. The first year or two was really painful both physically and mentally. I had one of the worst cases the doctors had ever seen which left me with an infection for nearly a full year. I was perscribed very high doses of famciclovir to help but it didn`t do much. I think the real problem was that I was only 16 and I felt like I was disgusting and I couldn`t understand how I was going to be able to explain to any future partner that I had an std. Nearly 10 years on I have accepted my herpes and I know that it was not my fault and it does not make me dirty or a slut. I have since had 2 long term partners one for 3 years and my current relationship of 4 years. Both partners were very understanding and I have a great sex life. If someone is going to judge you for an illness they are not worth having in your life but at the same time it is important to be honest with any new partner before you have sex with them so that they can make that decision for themselves. I now have outbreaks very rarely, I have one at the moment the first in 3 years and that is why I`m on here because when I was first diagnosed I found these blog sites very helpful. [46428]

Gender: F
Age: 35
Married: N
State: NY
Country: RICHMOD
Experience...
WILL I JUST WENT TO THE MY PRIVATEPHYSICIAN.AND SHE TOLME 3DAY AND I JUST WHAT TO.KONW MORE ABOUTIT, IJUST GOTIT. MYBE 4MONTHS ABOUTTHAT.AND I JUST.HAD A BABY,HE DONT HAVE TI,NOW HIS ONE,SO WHAT IS A OUTBREAK, [46414]

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Gender: F
Married: N
State: az
Country: usa
Experience...
I didn`t even know I had it. i`ve never had an outbreak or any of the symptoms. I went for a pap and asked to be tested for STd`s and at the next visit my doctor tells me i have Hsv2 but the vaginal swab was negative I told the doctor, she said it was in the blood work. I wanted to die. i still consider suicide from time to time, but where would that leave my kids. i continue to function in the world but inside i have no hope. I feel disgusting and dirty. I guess that`s what I get for trusting men. [46405]

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